Marriage Part 1 - Seeking a Partner
Subject: Marriage Part 1 - Seeking a Partner
Scripture Reading: Proverbs 31: 10 - 31
Memory Verse: Proverbs 18: 22
Objective: To establish biblical principles for seeking a spouse, emphasizing spiritual maturity and godly character over worldly criteria.
Introduction: Marriage is not a human invention; it is a divine institution designed by God in the Garden of Eden. Therefore, seeking a partner must be done according to God’s wisdom, not the patterns of the world. The goal is not merely finding someone who shares your interests, but finding a fellow labourer in the faith who will help you build a home which glorifies Jesus Christ.
What is the absolute foundational command regarding whom a believer is permitted to marry? 1 Corinthians 7: 39, 2 Corinthians 6: 14
When evaluating a prospective wife, what does Scripture say is far more valuable than outward beauty? Proverbs 31: 30, 1 Peter 3: 3 - 4
What character traits and behaviours should a woman look for in a prospective godly husband? Psalm 112: 1 - 5, Ephesians 5: 25
Note: When seeking a husband, a woman should look for a man who already demonstrates the sacrificial love, spiritual leadership and gentle provision which Christ shows to the Church. If he does not follow Christ now, he will not lead a home towards Christ later.
Why is it dangerous to rely solely on physical appearance or outward charm when choosing a partner? 1 Samuel 16: 7, Proverbs 11: 22
What role does patience, trust and prayer play in the season of seeking a spouse? Psalm 37: 4 - 5, Proverbs 3: 5 - 6
Conclusion: The choice of a spouse is the second most important decision a person will ever make, following the decision to accept Christ. It must be approached with intense prayer, sound biblical counsel and a commitment to prioritize inward holiness over superficial attraction.