Marriage Part 2 - Biblical Courting
Subject: Marriage Part 2 - Biblical Courting
Scripture Reading: 1 Thessalonians 4: 1 - 8
Memory Verse: Psalm 119: 9
Objective: To understand the purpose of courting as a season of intentional, pure evaluation rather than recreational, worldly dating.
Introduction: Modern dating is often characterized by serial, short-term relationships built on emotional and physical intimacy without commitment. Biblical courting, however, is an intentional season where a man and woman evaluate one another for marriage while fiercely protecting each other’s purity. It is conducted with accountability, clear boundaries and the direct involvement of godly family or church community.
What is God's absolute, uncompromising standard for believers regarding sexual purity prior to marriage? 1 Thessalonians 4: 3 - 5
How should young men and women view and treat one another during this season of getting to know each other? 1 Timothy 5: 1 - 2
Note: Treating a prospective partner as a "brother" or "sister" in all purity is the ultimate safeguard. It prevents premature emotional and physical entanglement, allowing the couple to objectively evaluate their spiritual compatibility.
Why is it vital to seek the oversight and counsel of godly parents or spiritual mentors during a courtship? Proverbs 11: 14, Proverbs 15: 22
What central question must be answered during the courtship phase to determine if the relationship should proceed to marriage? Amos 3: 3, 2 Corinthians 6: 14
How can believers actively guard their hearts and minds from awakening love before the proper time? Proverbs 4: 23, Song of Solomon 8: 4
Conclusion: Courting is a testing ground for character. A person who will not respect God's boundaries or your purity during a courtship will not suddenly develop self-control and spiritual discipline after the wedding day. Honour God in this season, and He will honour the relationship.