Marriage Part 3 - The Engagement
Subject: Marriage Part 3 - The Engagement
Scripture Reading: Matthew 1: 18 - 25
Memory Verse: Proverbs 24: 27
Objective: To view the engagement as a solemn covenantal promise and a vital time of practical and spiritual preparation for building a new home.
Introduction: In biblical times, the betrothal period was as legally binding as marriage itself. While our cultural practices have changed, an engagement remains a profound public declaration of intent. It is not merely a time to plan a wedding ceremony; it is a critical season for counselling, deep spiritual preparation and laying the practical groundwork for a lifelong union.
How did Joseph demonstrate righteous character and deep respect for Mary during their betrothal? Matthew 1: 19 - 20
What practical advice does Scripture offer before building a house or establishing a life together? Proverbs 24: 27, Luke 14: 28
Note: The engagement period is the necessary time to openly discuss finances, family expectations, gender roles and ministry goals. A couple must establish a solid, practical foundation before they enter the complexities of married life.
How does the betrothal between Christ and the Church serve as a beautiful model for engaged couples today? 2 Corinthians 11: 2, Revelation 19: 7 - 8
What difficult, but necessary, transition must be prepared for before a couple can truly become one? Genesis 2: 24, Ephesians 5: 31
What should be the central focus and motivation as a couple plans their wedding day? 1 Corinthians 10: 31, Colossians 3: 17
Conclusion: The wedding is an event that lasts a few hours, but the marriage lasts a lifetime. Couples must be careful not to spend all their energy preparing for the ceremony while neglecting the spiritual readiness required to sustain the covenant which they are about to make.